It became normal for a husband to give household furniture to his wife and children. But it was the opposite for this wife who had fallen down the stairs. You can have a stingy husband, you can have a calculated mother-in-law!
Imagine, having only 20 lei a week from my husband, that’s the money for the kitchen and that’s the money for the children’s shopping. After that, she was threatened with divorce by her husband.
This story was shared by a lawyer Syarie for the example of us all. Let’s take advice together. To your wife, you are a strong and tenacious person. May there be a ray of happiness for you in the future.
Leverage on household purchases, husband threatened with divorce
As shared by a woman with three children, who is now able to express her sadness from her heart because she is not as lucky as the wives out there.
When the responsibility of providing kitchen utensils is brought up, the husband will stand up and threaten divorce if the wife is busy begging. Only RM20.00 is provided per week to buy wet goods.
It is not enough? This is the kitchen spending money the wife receives each week. If you cook soy sauce eggs, sambal eggs, husband will laugh saying “RM20.00 cook only this?, I will spend mamak”.
RM20 WEEK INCLUDING CHILDREN’S POCKET MONEY, SORRY FOR THE WIFE…
The wife does not work after marriage because the husband asks the wife to fully concentrate on the household. Take care of the children. Indeed, the husband does not allow the wife to work.
The wife did not think much, she immediately agreed to quit work and stay at home. No savings. Husband said he could handle it.
Now that RM20.00 includes the school children’s pocket money.
HE DOESN’T WORK, THE MOTHER-IN-LAW LOOKS HATEFULLY AT THE SON-IN-LAW
The father-in-law also looks at his son-in-law with hatred when his wife does not work and has no salary. Even when he asked for rice, the father-in-law told him to change it again based on how many bowls his wife took.
Every month, the wife will change again after the wife’s sister gives financial help every month, even if it is not much in RM 150.00 per month. If you don’t change, you will be angry with your husband.
UNTIL THAT TIME THE HUSBAND WAS RUINED FOR THE WIFE…
The husband will say “good to borrow, good to pay”.
The wife has eaten her heart out for almost 8 years of marriage to the shame of the family on the wife and husband’s side. Life is hard because my husband is very stingy.
The money goes to the slot machines and pays off the debts of my husband’s friends. The property of the husband is the property of the husband only and will not change into the property of the wife and children.
WIFE IS TIRED! IT’S NOT TIRED TODAY, GONE TOMORROW
Now the wife is determined and determined to file for divorce because she is once again frustrated with this husband-wife relationship. The marriage became a mess.
The wife is tired. The fatigue that is not a rest day tomorrow is gone, but the mental and emotional fatigue. You can no longer be brought up, if you are pushed you will fight.
If the wife is the only one who has to do everything, then it is difficult for the wife to provide the service as expected. Maybe in other couples, the story is different.
Therefore, by making a decision with an open mind and accepting all positive advice, I believe that all conflicts and problems today can be resolved as best as possible for the mutual benefit of those who are interested in marriage.
Source: Facebook Peguam Syarie : Amalina Adam
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